Dependent personality disorder

 The characteristics of dependent personality disorder What? How to treat?
Dependent personality disorder are the main features:
1, no assertive. Received from others in the absence of a large number of proposals and assurances, not everyday things make decisions.
2, sense of helplessness. Let others do most of the major decisions for themselves, such as career, school, etc.
3, a sense of abandonment. knowing that others are wrong, but because of fear of being abandoned, but also echo.
4, no independence. difficult to independently complete their own plan or do their own thing.
5, over-tolerant. to please others, willing to do what he do not want to do.
6 fear of loneliness. alone and helpless when a sense of discomfort, or make every effort to escape loneliness.
7, difficult to accept separation. When the close relationship ends, feel helpless or crash.
8, vulnerable. very vulnerable to criticism or praise and get hurt.
the formation of dependent personality disorder, family education related to their early years, such as over-indulgent. As parents too concerned about the passage of time in the hearts of children, it will have the authority of parents or psychological dependence, it is still not independent adult. Treatment of dependent personality, behavior therapy can be used to develop general patient self-care ability to live to be independent mature:
1, to give to create the dependent personality various kinds of opportunities for independence and to keep positive and to encourage their progress, and to the accumulation of progress bit by bit, the last to be consolidated.
2, not to strengthen the dependency of patients with dependent personality psychology, psychological dependence continue to make desalination. but daily life, we often invisible to strengthen the patient's negative behavior. dependent personality patients attention and concern for others is very sensitive, random outpouring of care and attention, and sometimes they just reinforce the dependence of the heart.
3, to respect the dependent personality, the patient he had in mind for those who rely on love, intimacy and emotional attachment, do not rely on the destruction of these give him the idol. If these idols are broken, their spirit of survival were destroyed pillar , the patient may fall into more profound spiritual crisis.